
We have arrived at the halfway point of the year.
Time for some self-reflecting assessment.
I am usually in the habit of doing this on a yearly basis to try to keep my life in check and to take any corrective measures necessary in my life to make sure I am back on track with my yearly resolutions and also to help me re-focus on my direction in life if I should have strayed some time during the first-half of the year.
So this question is inevitable: What have we done so far in 2008 that is worthy of mention?
More important than what we have done is what have we become in our character during the course of this first 182 days of the year that we can be quietly pleased with or even give thanks to God for?
I was reading through Day 22 of Rick Warren's The Purpose Driven Life this morning, and as I pondered on the reading while trying to contextualise and apply it to the time of the year we are at, this section of the reading spoke to me:
God is far more interested in what you are than in what you do. We are human beings, not human doings. God is much more concerned about your character than your career, because you will take your character into eternity, but not your career.
Being a practising Christian, we are ultimately called to be Christlike. Let me get this straight: called to be Christlike does NOT mean trying to become God, or even a god. It's not like I suddenly become "Wins the god of thunder or love" or whatever. We are created beings, so we will never be the Creator hence we will never be God or a god. The point here is, God wants us all to be godly by taking on his values, attitudes and character. Becoming Christlike doesn't mean we lose our personality or become totally mindless clones who offer ourselves up to be crucified every Easter. I believe He has created us all unique with our different abilities, skills and talents to do different things and to relate to different types of people. So He obviously wouldn't want to take your mind away from you. But I believe God wants us to be better people by the transformation of our character.
Now, I hear lots of people going around expecting (and often criticising) Christians all for being extremely pious and holy holy, or some stick in the mud, or Holy Joes who don't know how to have fun or something; and then accusing Christians for being hypocritical if they are seen not to be living up to the expected standards. You know what? There is some truth in this. Unfortunately, we don't live by the standards that are expected of these people; we live by higher standards--we live by the standards God expect of us. We are humans and we will definitely 100% fall short of that standards because we are not perfect. Simple as that. So if you're expecting Christians to be "God on earth", sorry lah, cannot. Fail already. However, fortunately for us, since we are not perfect--because we are not God but created beings with our human fallibility--we are not required to live perfect. That's why we go to church, because we are not perfect. Why does a patient go see a doctor? Because he or she is not feeling well and needs treatment right? So it is with us Christians. We need God that's why we go to church.
Having said that, being Christlike is not being perfect. Although Christ is, we are humans so we are not. But we can be like Him, not be Him. We learn and live to be Christlike through the choices we make each day. As Rick Warren puts it, "we choose to do the right thing in situations and then trust God's Spirit to give us His power, love, faith, and wisdom to do it." Our spiritual growth into Christlikeness is an ongoing process so it's not instant or automatic; it's going to be gradual and progressive that will probably take the rest of our lives. So for now, we are work in progress.
So the next time you see a Christian and, in your opinion, does not live up to what you expect of him, relax and cut him or her some slack. He or she is not done yet. We are still perfecting it and getting it right. We are learning to choose right and do right. It can be difficult sometimes because there are so many gray areas and things in life are never so clear cut. We are imperfect and sometimes we choose poorly, which exposes our imperfection even more. But when we fall, we should try to commit ourselves to the grace of God and cling on to Him even more. God knows we are trying, and as we persevere, He will give us the grace to keep on going. God is gracious, and that really matters when we work at getting it right. So, forgive us if we go wrong and bear with us. Better still, I challenge you to join us and experience it for yourself. It's a challenge for sure but what kind of life would you make for yourself if it is without challenges?
So back to my question with some modifications to it:
What have I become, through the choices I had made, that has made a difference to the lives of the people (not so much on my achievement) around me so far in 2008 that God can be pleased with?
We live in an achievement-oriented world, where we are told to do this, this, and that so that we can get this, this and that so that we can become this, this, and that. But what part of that achievement do you take with you to the grave? Nothing.
Our character is part of our soul and ultimately determines who we are. The souls of men is one of the two things that lasts forever. The other is the Word of God. These two should go hand in hand.
God help me make the right choices for the rest of the year, and this is my prayer for you too, regardless if you have read on this far.


























